identifying the ideal mate

I read somewhere that a woman made a list of attributes of the ideal man for her and then prayed over this list until God brought that man into her life. I like this idea -- not because I think that the right man will magically appear, but because I think it will keep me focused -- prayerfully focused. It's easy to identify what I don't like or don't want, but more difficult to define what I really need and want. So here is my list divided into needs and wants.

Needs

• devoted follower of Christ -- faith is a natural extension of his life; involved in a church
  
• financially stable -- solid profession; wise with money
• educated -- college degree; continues to learn
• stable family life
• honest and up front; open and at ease
• emotionally balanced
• pursues a healthy lifestyle with exercise and moderate diet
• unselfish -- puts others first; flexible; shows genuine interest in other people; attentive
  
• willingness to experience new things; interests are varied
• physically attractive (difficult to define, but I know it when I see it)
  
• confident but humble
• no addictions of any kind
  

Wants

• reader
• sports fan
• expressive eyes (perhaps blue?)
  
• music lover --appreciates musical performance
  
• graduate degree
• likes to be outside -- hiking, outdoor sports
• resourceful
• does not want more biological children
• has hair (lol)
  
• well traveled -- wants to travel